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Friends

Friend

A friend is a cherished companion, a confidante in times of joy and sorrow. They are the ones who stand by you, offering support and laughter along life's journey. True friends share in your triumphs and comfort you in your trials. They are the ones who know the depths of your soul and accept you without judgment. As we navigate the twists and turns of life, friends are the constant presence that makes the path brighter and more meaningful. Let us never underestimate the power of friendship and the joy it brings to our lives.

hope you are all well by the grace of Almighty Allahtaala! Hope you are having wonderful time, wherever you maybe and/or travelling! If you are not and/or in ill health, please accept my apologies, but may Allahtaala give you the strength to overcome the situation soon. I apologise that it took me longer to write this time.

 “Meaning of a Friend is Unexplainable/Inexplicable".

 Some cannot be a friend who you have been spending/sharing time together, teasing together since upbringing till demise. Then again, someone could be your best friend who you may just have met for a brief phase of lifetime.

 The livelihood creates family and invisible bond creates friendship. Friends do not comprehend any insignificant exploration. The tension between happiness & sadness stays the same through lifetime. Only true friends can share joy with smile and ease the burden of hardship offering their shoulders forward with no string attached!

 Many of you may easily say, "My friend insulted me or hurt me." In that case I would say he/she is not your real friend. A real friend perhaps can’t fulfil your needs but will never do anything as such to harm you. That’s why, it is not feasible to call Friend to all you know and/or meet through the journey of Life.

 The word “Friend” has no gender, age or race. The foundation of the word ‘Friend’ means a person with whom one has a bond of mutual affection, typically one exclusive of sexual or family relations. The bondage between friends are from the connections between hearts.

 True friendship stays the same even after been apart for decades. The individual needs to feel the urge in other’s heart and only then they will hit the road to find each other without any planning ahead. There are examples that the other’s problem been solved somewhat by just the appearance of that same individuals.

 We call our youthful friends or classmates as our “Friend” at times. In many cases none of those friends seem to be next to you when you are in trouble or in need, yet they are the one who actually come forward and stand next to you, shoulder-to- shoulder to halve the burden and to pull you out from the struggling you are in. So, those you thought to be the dearest left you in the deep showing their back and criticizing your struggles from a safe distance.

 Thus, goes the misconceptions in the drain you and I may carrying in our whole lives. May Allahtaala give us the strength to recognize those friends while we can and to embrace them who are real and those to elude who aren’t. Let’s finish by saying what one of such friends of mine said to me recently. "Our friend is in danger, why would he/she have to speak to us? If we cannot understand the face before opening his/her mouth, then what are we friends for?"

 So, let’s embrace the love between our friends, and respect that relationship and to be proud to call each other friends. Don’t forget to Subscribe (smash it) if you haven’t already to my website, My Blog, Instagram & YouTube Channel (which I am trying to face it but in Progress)! May Allahtaala bless us all! Until next time, please look after yourself and each other! Thank you…